Being caught in 'close proximity' in the middle of the night with a co-star last week has hastened the end of the marriage of popular Malaysian TV actor Norman Hakim.
His wife Abby Abadi Monday turned up with divorce papers - accompanied by 20 media persons - at a location where Hakim was shooting for a TV serial playing a local cop.
Media had chased Abadi from the the religious Syriah court where she had gone to file her divorce petition. She could not submit them because they were not complete, The Star said Tuesday.
The six-year marriage had been on the rocks as per media reports. The scandal of being caught with actress Memey Suhaiza, 20, has proved to be the last straw.
Media reports have speculated that Memey was the cause of marital problems of Norman, 33 and Abby, 29.
Norman started crying when his wife of six years handed him the documents and ushered her away to discuss the matter privately.
About 45 minutes later, they spoke to reporters.
Norman was detained early last Thursday by Selangor religious department officers at his office, charging him with khalwat (close proximity) with Memey.
This is a crime under the Islamic law.
When asked whether he would cooperate with Abby, Norman said he was willing to do so provided Memey was given a fair hearing.
This prompted an outburst from Abby, who accused him of not caring for her feelings.
Norman then tried to pacify her, saying that private matters should not be discussed in public, but this prompted another outburst from Abby.
She accused him of lying, effectively cutting short the press conference when Norman walked off muttering that he had nothing else to say about the issue.
He had earlier told reporters he needed time to think things over and hoped to salvage the marriage.
He added that he had not gone home since the incident to prevent quarrels between them as Abby would get riled up whenever he mentioned Memey's name and accuse him of defending her.
Norman became evasive when asked about the nature of his relationship with Memey, saying: 'I have to consider the feelings of others and Abby is still my wife.'
Rumours that their marriage was on the rocks started circulating a few months ago and local entertainment magazines had speculated that Memey was the cause.
| By WTH, 11-04-08, 05:13 PM |
..........................this is their private matters ok...nothing to do with 'take religion off our identity cards'???
we are no one to judge who is right and who is wrong even for now we can see that norman hakim is obviously wrong...we just dont know how far the truth is...owh..i’ve gone too far..this thing..this tiny little problem thing...should not be a major problem to us..this private thing should not have space in any blogs, news, etc... |
| By danial hakimd, 11-04-08, 03:01 PM |
to old lambi dont agree wt u... not only muslim women like to go out but the other relegion women also do the same thing now days.... for ur info this is a problem between norman and aby n nothing related to muslim women... so next time pls watch ur words before give any comments..tq |
| By haha, 11-04-08, 03:08 PM |
abby pityabby , suru tu norman pi gi la. u still beautiful wat! muka dan hati mcm tu norman kat lonkang2 jalan KL pun bole dapat da. |
| By Chefman, 11-04-08, 05:04 PM |
| tengok muka laki dia dgn muka girlfriend dia sama je.. muka miang alias gatal... memang tak sedar diri!!!
padan muka - God is Great. Abby, byk2 bersabar. God Bless. |
| By WTH, 11-04-08, 05:11 PM |
..........................this is their private matters ok...nothing to do with 'take religion off our identity cards'???
we are no one to judge who is right and who is wrong even for now we can see that norman hakim is obviously wrong...we just dont know how far the truth is...owh..i’ve gone too far..this thing..this tiny little problem thing...should not be a major problem to us..this private thing should not have space in any blogs, news, etc... |
| By OLD LAMB, 11-04-08, 02:38 PM |
SCANDAL HASTENS MALAYSIAN TV ACTOR'S DIVORCEYOUNG MUSLIM WOMEN NORMALLY LIKE TO GO OUT WITH MARRIED MEN. THEY LOVE TO DO THINGS THAT AGAINST THEIR OWN RELIGION. MEMNEY WILL NOT GET MARRIED WITH ONE MAN COS' SHE FLIRTS EVERYWHERE SHE GOES. SHE WILL LOOK FOR ANOTHER VICTIM. I BELIEVE ABBY IS NOT ALONE. BE STRONG ABBY. WE LOVE WATCHING YOU ON TV. GO FOR YR CAREER. |
| By a man @ a hubby, 11-04-08, 08:21 PM |
Scandal hastens Malaysian TV actor's divorcemy home is my heaven.. as long as i treated like a husband in all manners, there’s no reason for me to look for others.. in this case, please be fair.. don’t just simply put the blame on the husband, put yourself in both shoes to seek for the truth..
please use your head instead of your heart.. |
| By jaded, 11-04-08, 01:41 PM |
Scandal hastens Malaysian TV actor's divorcedon’t be a hypocrite. be true to your self and spouse.don’t put your blame on other when you are the ones who create trouble.men should protect not hurt. |
| By erry141282, 11-04-08, 01:47 PM |
Scandal hastens Malaysian TV actor's divorcedey!!!!!!!apa la tara pandai simpan aku yg xkawin pun tau cover....bodo otak letak kt perut.....da bbni buat cara da de bni la |
| By jepalau, 11-04-08, 01:55 PM |
yipeswe should all stay out of private affairs. But no the press is on it like a whore and Islamic law jumps on it too. We need to separate church and state. Let us all make our own religious decisions as we want. take religion off our identity cards. |
| By bassethound , 11-04-08, 12:06 PM |
Scandal hastens Malaysian TV actor's divorceBLOOSY BASTARD!!IS WHAT U CALL MARRIED WO FLAUNTS HIS MARRAIGE WOWS!! HOW CAN U EXPECT WOMEN TO KEEP TOLERATING POLYGAMY,,,CUT HIS D*^%$#@! OFF!! BLOODY EOGIEST & SEX MANIAC!! |
| By hantu, 11-05-08, 04:44 AM |
tak reti bersyukur dan bersabarsaya rasa kesian pada abby yang manis tu krn diperlakukan sedemikian rupa.. kalau tak kerana disiarkan di akhbar tempatan, kita takkan tau sapa norman tu.. tapi, kita tak perlualah salahkan sapa2 sebab kita tak tahu apa masalah sebenar mereka hingga norman sanggup buat mcm tu.. untuk pengajaran bg artis2 lain, apa kata pihak penyiar BAN mereka yang melakukan kesilapan yang sungguh tak dapat dimaafkan tu.. biar org2 yg bersalah tu, buat kerja lain.. sapa mau tgk muka yg dh buat kerosakan atas nama artis tu? sapa?! boikot ja GERAK KHAS selagi ada norman..pasal memey tu, sapa dia? cari publisiti murah ka? jgn2 si memey tu yang perangkap norman hakim.. haha! |
| By Que, 11-05-08, 02:39 AM |
Kau memang gatal!!!ni la laki. tatau bersyukur. gatal, ikut nafsu sangat. bukan semua, tapi yg jenis2 mcm encik norman hakim ni mmg ramai. ada bini buat cara ada bini. ada anak lagi. anak yg last pun baru je habis hari. yg pompuan tu pun satu. umor baru 20, rosak kerjaya kau hny kerana turutkan sgt nafsu gattaall kau tuh. kau buat mcm ni kat org, satu hari nanti org buat balik dkt kau. apela nak jadi dgn budak2 muda mcm ni. memalukan keluarga. serius, aku tak kenal pun kau siapa. dahla tak fofular, miang bukan main lagi pulak tuh. menipu, ckp putar belit sebelum ni. hahhh... hambek kau, puas hati aku...!!! kesian kau abby, u deserve a better man. i know u r a wonderful mum. ur husband didnt realize how precious n how wonderful u r. let other man does. u deserve a better life. anggap ini dugaan dan jgn takut n sedih2. tak salah kau emosi lebih2. tapi bawakkan bertenang tau. kitorg paham. semua org menyokong anda. lastly, norman hakim, u mmg bastard. muka je hensem, tapi mmg hampeh. memey suhaiza, u mmg a cheap slut! |
| By shalala, 11-05-08, 04:29 AM |
be strongNo matter how we treat our husbands, its not a reason to stray. We treat them good, they stray, we treat them bad, they still stray. They can’t control libido. Even if we are as gorgeous as angel, its still not enough for our husbands. Only very few men remain faithful and loyal to their wives. Be strong, pray hard Abby. God will be on the side of those who are true believers. |
| By Sincere woman, 11-05-08, 04:30 AM |
Sabar buat AB Pengajaran Buat NormanFor AB, I Know what u feel but as a muslim without any proof only cakap2 org u r just membantu penyebaran fitnah.I am a wife dan tahu rasanya dengar suami kita diskandalkan sampai seteruk ini but I just dont want kisah sembilu kasih menjadi realiti just think about your children sabar selagi boleh sabar dont let people who want to collapse your home become winner fight 4 your right.N 4 Norman, u r the imam in the house just act like u r the leader not the boss. adalah lebih baik habiskan masa d rumah but just take this as a lesson. We do not know the truth but as a human being i just can give my opinion and up 2 u to take action. Tak boleh jugak masuk campur kan Inilah lumrah hidup berumahtangga anyway i minat u and abby not as actor and actress but i pernah anggap u all pasangan contoh try to pertahankan rumah tangga dan kalahkan fitnah jagalah maruah artis melayu Malaysia ok sorry 4 any heartfeeling bye wassalam |
| By unbiased, 11-05-08, 03:11 AM |
ego egoI love watching Abby on TV playing her part in Gerak Khas. I have loved watching her since she started acting.Seems to be a very straight forward woman - easily likable.
My sincere sympathies to her. Go on living, Abby and forget what’s happened |
| By Anonymous, 11-05-08, 04:09 AM |
KEEP COOL ABBYrelax abby, think of your innocent kids...they deserve to be protected and loved by their parents. since the father is “perangai satu sen pun tak laku”...you need to be strong. we r all behind u, forget abt norman...he is not the right man for u, your mr right will one day come to rescue you. |
| By Anonymous, 11-05-08, 04:16 AM |
| Sebagai seorang Muslim kita tidak boleh melempar sebarang tuduhan atau andaian yang tidak baik kpd sesaorng. Bagi mereka yang terlibat harus muasabahkan diri sendiri apabila Allah telah menetapkan sesuatu kpd mereka.Allah tidak zalim, yg zalim adalah manusia.Ini menunjukkan Allah masih sayang kpd mereka, agar mereka membetulkan kesilapan masing2 yang menyebabkan kejadian itu berlaku.Saya yakin pengajaran ini akan memperbaiki segala kelemahan dan kelalaian kita kpd Allah.Mohonlah keampunan dengan Tuhan diatas kesilapan dan kelemahan kita, sesungguhnya Allah itu maha pengampun. Manusia memang sentiasa melakukan kesalahan cuma jangan mengulangi kesilapan yg sama. InshaAllah saya doakan kebahagian rumah tangga beliau berkekalan. Kesabaran itu adalah sebahagian drp iman. |
| By lysreen, 11-05-08, 06:03 AM |
no body is perfectBuat Norman dan Abby, anggaplah apa yang telah berlaku itu sebagai salah satu dari dugaan dari Allah buat anda berdua..Anda harus terima segala risiko yang datang.sama-samalah interfeksi diri..yang baik dijadikan tauladan dan yang burok dijadikan sempadan..Disebalik kejadian ini pasti ada hikmahnya..Allah maha adil,maha mengetahui dan maha pengampun dan penyayang..saya yakin, anda berdua masih boleh bermuafakat dan berbincang secara baik untuk menyelesaikan masaalah ini.kami sayangkan anda berdua dan harapan kami rumahtangga anda kembali bahagia...janganlah di sia-siakan masa depan anak-anak anda.Mereka belom tahu apa-apa..jangan jadikan mereka mangsa broken home.. |
| By ojah, 11-05-08, 08:07 AM |
go abby go...rasa abby dah banyak bersabar dah.. buat sembahyang istikharah.. kalu it’s better to be divorce.. divorce je ler...
hubby lain boleh cari.. buat ape sakit hati.. asal anak2 ade semua ok..
buat ape stay on dgn lelaki yg tak sedar diuntung.. dulu dah buat, dia buat lagi.. banyak bohong plak tu.. |
| By Just A Woman, 11-06-08, 05:03 AM |
Abby and NormanNorman : We don’t know what really happened that night between you & Memey Suhaiza. If its true that u were 'set up', file a police report or hire an attorney to cover you. But since your wife had insinuate that you are a real LYING D*&K, well then accept the consequences of divorce. And there is NO case of polygamy here. Norman has not decide on marrying memy because of 'that night' s incident.
Abby: Women in general be it muslim, christian, catholic, taosit, buddhist, hindu, etc can never tolerate cheating, whatmore polygamy. In this matter, Norman is still married to you but if you believe strongly that your husband is a cheating D*%K, then with proper evidences, file a divorce if living with this moron is too excruciating. Yes, it seems like a proviate matter which should not appear in blogs or news but whoever wrote that is also a real moron because both Abby & Norman are local Malaysian artistes. |
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