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    Vietnam maid's Taiwan boss is her long-lost father
    Hong Kong Herald
    Tuesday 22nd January, 2008  
    (IANS)


    A Vietnamese woman who came to Taiwan to work as a maid and to search for her Taiwanese father has been reunited with him in a human drama story bordering on a miracle.

    All of Taiwan's newspapers on Tuesday reported how Tran Thi Kham, 40, was recently reunited with her father Tsai Han-chao, 77, who could hardly believe what had happened: 'I can only say: This is fate.'

    The story goes back to 1967 when Tsai, then a 36-year-old businessman, took a business trip to Hong Kong and fell in love with Ah Hua, a Vietnamese girl working as a shop assistant at a Hong Kong department store.

    Though already married, Tsai fell in love with Ah Hua and gave her his photo and a gold ring. The affair was short-lived as Tsai returned to Taiwan and Ah Hua returned to North Vietnam to care for her sick mother.

    In Vietnam, Ah Hua gave birth to a girl, Tran Thi Kham, but died when Tran was two months old, leaving behind only a photo of Tran Tsai and a gold ring.

    Tran was raised by Ah Hua's elder sister. When Tran got married at 21, the aunt told Tran about her father. In 2004 Tran, leaving behind an abusive husband and two grown children, came to work in Taiwan and to search for her father.

    Tran brought with her Tsai's photo and the gold ring but did not know where to start her search. But as if arranged by fate, her first employer - unknown to her at the time - was her father Tsai, who had applied for a foreign maid to care for his paralysed wife.

    Tran cared for Mrs Tsai for seven months until she died, never knowing Tsai was her father and Tsai's six children were her half-brothers and sisters.

    'I never talked to her about Vietnam or Ah Hua because it was long time ago and I did not know Ah Hua had become pregnant,' Tsai said, peeking at old photos at his home in Sanchung near Taipei, where he lives alone.

    Tsai's feelings are complicated by his recollection about Tran's mother Ah Hua, recalling now that he had liked her then, but that the affair had been just a fling.

    'I met her only twice and never contacted her afterwards. Neither did she contact me. How could I know she became pregnant?' he mused.

    After Mrs Tsai had died, Tran moved to work for another employer on Taiwan's offshore island Kinmen, and then other employers there.

    Recently Tran noticed that she had lost her parcel containing Tsai's photo and the ring. She suspected she had left it at Tsai's home, so she asked Kinmen police to phone Tsai to check.

    'I checked my wife's cabinet and saw the parcel and opened it to see what was inside. When I saw my photo and the ring, I nearly fainted,' Tsai said, in a slow and weak voice.

    'I called back the Kinmen police to tell them it was my photo and ring in the packet. They said it was too complicated and I should go to Kinmen so that I and Tran could talk it over.'

    Tsai flew to Kinmen for a tearful reunion early this month.

    Neither of them could believe that they had lived under the same roof for seven months, but not knowing they were father and daughter.

    A DNA test proved Tran is Tsai's daughter.

    Tran has returned to Vietnam as her work contract expired. Now, she wants to emigrate to Taiwan to care for her father, who is living alone and in poor health.

    It was not clear how Tsai's six children were reacting to the news about their father's extra-marital affair and their half-sister from Vietnam.

    Although Taiwan radio and TV reported Tsai and his daughter's reunion throughout the day, and their photos were on the front page of every newspaper, Tsai has not received a phone call from any of his six children.

    'I think they will call me when they see the news,' he said, looking at the telephone on his table.

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    Comments on this story

    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 02:02 PM

    Vietnam maid's Taiwan boss is her long-lost father

    well isnt that something..
    By nascarfanintx, 01-23-08, 04:39 PM

    awwwwww

    wow that is cool if the the half brothers and sisters cant handle it too bad..but i think it is awesome
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 04:48 PM

    god works in beautiful ways

    That I must say was very touching; I got reunited with my father; yet he still didn’t want to be a part of my life. Cherish this and hold onto it; you only live life once; you are part of who created you. Learn about yourself grow and prospir. Beautiful that’s all I really have to say. Bless your hearts.
    By Stormy Lynn - Texas, 01-23-08, 05:16 PM

    Step-Siblings Should Step Up!

    I really, really hope that the siblings will embrace this new family member. I understand if they need to express some disappointment to their father over his affair, but it was so long ago that they should express that and then move on. Forgive the old man for his imperfection, realize that he did not leave his family but came back and stayed with them and cared for his wife and kids... and God has seen fit to bless you with another family member in a awkward way... which is not the fault of the child... and look at how she cared for their mother in her illness... she should be accepted and welcomed with open arms.
    By Herny, 01-23-08, 05:30 PM

    My Prediction...

    Before it’s all over, there is going to be some kung fu! HiYaaaaaaah!
    By nightmoth, 01-23-08, 05:32 PM

    Beautiful Story

    This is a beautiful story that should be made into a movie. The children should step up and accept this person into their family. As the above writer said, she cared for their mother and will do the same for their father. I am certain the six have not been perfect in their lives and there should be no judgment of their father.
    By nightmoth, 01-23-08, 05:33 PM

    Beautiful Story

    This is a beautiful story that should be made into a movie. The children should step up and accept this person into their family. As the above writer said, she cared for their mother and will do the same for their father. I am certain the six have not been perfect in their lives and there should be no judgment of their father.
    By rofaith, 01-23-08, 05:42 PM

    Arranged by God

    An amazing story that could only have been arranged by a loving and caring God. I have learned in life that there are no coincidences, only God-incidences. I am so happy they are finally together. I hope and pray that she will be able to emigrate to Taiwan to care for her new found father.
    By Hidden Horse, 01-23-08, 06:22 PM

    Half brothers and sisters.

    Why can’t the half brothers and sisters handle it? If they cannot handle it, are they suggesting they are better people because their parents were married? That’s the only reason? That reason, if so, does not make logical sense.
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 06:32 PM

    The Half Sister the only one that cares?

    Is it not amazing that Tran wants to come back to take care of her ailing father? The story says he lives alone yet he has six other children that do not appear to be around.
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 06:44 PM

    Life Imitating Art

    There is a Korean TV show called Bride from Vietnam that is currently running and is similar to this story. It has an english subtitle. This is a very entertaining program with lots of turns and twists as a young Vietnamese girl goes to Korea to find her long lost father.
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 06:57 PM

    Life works in mysterious ways

    This story is so touching and beautiful it made my eyes water and I’m at work!!! Some people are NEVER united with their parents so... WOW. No words can even describe how beautiful this story is!! And to think she is the ONLY one who wants to go aid the father who is in poor health. The half brothers and sisters (SIX of them, mind you) need to let the past go, forgive, embrace their newest family member... and BE A FAMILY!!! I pray for all of them... may the time they have left together be blessed and full of wonderful memories!!!
    By John from Denton, TX, 01-23-08, 07:04 PM

    A great story

    This is a good story that could end up being a great story if the 6 kids step up and accept their sister. I also liked the comment that Stormy Lynn wrote; I’d like to have her for a neighbor.
    By Anon., 01-23-08, 07:53 PM

    Give it some time.....

    Amazing story and I agree this is no coincidence! But I won’t rush so quickly to judge the siblings. They’ve only just found out about this, while the father and Vietnamese daughter have each separately known about this affair for years. The siblings are just now digesting this news, and why didn’t the father tell them himself? Why did he wait for the news to report it to the world? Yes, I hope they can forgive, but it takes time to process this — especially the way it’s been delivered.
    By Mag, 01-23-08, 07:47 PM

    Lay off the siblings

    The siblings had no part in this and are not obligated to treat this stranger as a family member if they don’t care to. If a long-lost brother showed up on your doorstep, he would have to respect your privacy and your wishes as to whether you wanted him to become part of your life. This is not a foundling in need of humanitarian support, this is an adult stranger.
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 07:59 PM

    Touching!!

    This is an amazing story but where were the other 6 children when the mother needed care? Those 6 are missing out on a lot and don’t seem very caring for their parents.
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 08:05 PM

    Forgiveness

    God forgive so why can’t we. God don’t make mistakes. Tran was ment to be here and Tsai her father.
    By Jerry, 01-23-08, 08:19 PM

    Sounds like and episode from "LOST"

    Sound like one of the episodes from the TV program LOST. Seems like it was destiny and pre-ordained.
    By sick, 01-23-08, 08:29 PM

    sick

    it’s not agreat story. the man cheated on his wife....had sex with a stranger.and moved on.....two wrongs don’t make a right........
    By monkie, 01-23-08, 08:30 PM

    gooollle

    Goooollleee
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 08:44 PM
    Oh yes what a beautiful story of infidelity! It is the work of God! Praise Jebsus! Stupid people here. My wife found out she had a half sister when they were both adults. She tried to interject herself in her life. She doesn’t speak to her or care to. Why should they be subjected to accept her as a sister? Would you be proud your dad cheated on your mom?
    By Son-shine lady, 01-23-08, 08:48 PM

    not sick but beautiful!

    Yes, the man cheated on his wife and two wrongs don’t make a right. But what are you calling the second wrong? I think it’s interesting that the father had to hire a supposed stranger to care for his wife when she had six living children. And I find it a beautiful turn of events that his own daughter was the “stranger” and futhermore that she wants to return to care for her ailing father! Maybe he was paralyzed himself and just didn’t know how to tell his children, maybe it’s a culture thing. Nontheless, it is indeed a beautiful story that should be made into a book and then a movie!
    By Son-shine lady, 01-23-08, 08:51 PM

    not sick....

    "paralyzed” as in emotionally, not physically. sorry!
    By Son-shine lady, 01-23-08, 08:56 PM

    Your missing the point!

    No, it’s not beautiful that the father commited infidility. But what is so beautiful is that something bad had such a beautiful outcome. You sound bitter. I’m sorry if you have been hurt but unforgivness and bitterness will only cause you to be unhealthy. It does no harm to those who hurt you. Do yourself a favor and let it go! I speak from experience!
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 08:58 PM
    I bet the guys dead wife would have been ecstatic! She probably would have kicked the bucket the first week! Maybe his kids have JOBS and FAMILIES of their own to take care of. Maybe their parents beat them and that is why they were alone. Who the hell are any of you to judge them(his kids)? How about someone calling this guy out for being a cheating piece of trash.
    By spaceoat, 01-23-08, 09:01 PM

    hmm

    Well judgement aside, I like the story because, hey, what are the odds? Pretty cool.
    By Hung Choo, 01-23-08, 09:05 PM

    Daddy?

    I am in the same situation? Could Tran be my daddy too? My mom was a whore in Vietnam too.... dun! dun! dun!
    By MiladyMaleficent, 01-23-08, 09:12 PM

    Not Her Fault

    I think her half Sib’s should accept her as she is not at fault what happened so many years ago. The father was wrong to cheat on his wife, but years have passed and she is no longer around to be hurt by it. He wasn’t even aware of his child, so it does show he has a kind heart to go to her once he found out she was his child. I say Forgiveness is divine!
    By nypete, 01-23-08, 09:12 PM

    thats great

    this is a good heart warming story and some retard (herny)has to bring kungfu into it herny STOP FLAUNTING YOUR IGNORANCE and appreciate the story for what it is
    By manda, 01-23-08, 09:13 PM

    Small World

    I think it’s a cool story for the daughter but not for the half brothers and sisters. That dude might have even more kids running around if he cheated more than once. But the fact that RANDOMLY she worked for her dad is pretty crazy. Small world I say.
    By SORFLE, 01-23-08, 09:33 PM

    GET IN TROUBLE...

    WILL WILL WILL.........IF IM YOUR SON IM GOING TO GIVE YOU BIG WHACK.... YOU CHEEKY MONKEY!
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 09:50 PM

    He's a good man to take responsibilities.

    He could have denied her but he didn’t,he devoted his life to his six children,but he have never given tran any support in life,infact she’s the one caring for his dead wife and him at the end,tran mother must have died of heart break,tran is a product of love.Tsai only crime is loving too many women ;)
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 09:51 PM

    Why all the Hate?

    Why all the hate? There’s too much hate in the world. If you want to crucify the father/mother/kids/step-daughter, then you’re obviously part of the world’s hate problem. Plus, we should all let the kids speak for themselves before anyone starts to judge them. Maybe they’ll openly accept her but no one’s even given them a chance to respond. The story just broke!!! No one knows how they feel but many want to make it sound like the kids have rejected the new sister already and no one even knows. Why do any of our opinions matter anyway? None of us are involved in the story. The story is GREAT!!! We don’t have enough good stories in the news and when one comes along, many want to rip it apart right away because someone didn’t live up to their morals. Remember, Jesus can forgive the repentant sinner, but sometimes we can’t. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. And now abideth faith, hope, charity (Love), these three; but the greatest of these is charity (Love). No more hate... No more hate... No more hate... Come on... chant it with me...
    By tt, 01-23-08, 09:53 PM

    What about the grandchildren?

    So what about the abusive husband and the newly found grand-children (neices and nephews) in Viet Nam. This gets more complicated the more you think about it. Now there is a maternal grand-father for those children...maybe he should share some of his wealth with the new family members. He obviously has more than the Vietnamese daughter ever had. The 6 children may not want to share the inheritance. Many mixed emotions in this story.
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 10:04 PM
    A great ending would be for all the sibblings to embrace one another,an additional member to a family is a gift not a curse,it’s a big family,but it’s up to them to prove how big are their heart toward one another,it’s no one fault at all really,it’s all tsai fault,but then again he gave life to them all.And he took full responsibilities.Their father is all they have left.
    By CHINA, 01-23-08, 10:05 PM

    Where are her 2 childrens ???

    This lady id ofering to take care of his new found father but what about her childrens ?????she jest left them to find her father ???? and stay with him ???? and forget abouth her childresns .....!!!???do the father have money.....??
    By despinne, 01-23-08, 10:19 PM

    Lost children

    I have been waiting since 1980 for a lost child to investigate her beginnings. My daughter put her up for adoption, I never even got to hold her. We are what we are, but at least, we want to know if she was treated well by the parents and has a successful life (as opposed to being homeless, druggie, etc etc etc).
    By Atheist, 01-23-08, 10:20 PM
    Yea the Jesus hypocrites are out in droves today. Jesus said this, Jesus said that. Yet you are all hypocrites. Why don’t you go back to bribing the starving with food, to spread your fake gospel.
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 10:21 PM
    It’s pathetic how one devoted his entire life to his children and family but at the end none of them are around,they left their father to be cared for by a long lost daughter,who he have never done anything for but gave her misery from the beginning of her life as infant alway to adulthood,if tran can forgive her father,why can’t her half sibblings do the same ?
    By uffda, 01-23-08, 10:30 PM

    Great story

    This is unbelievable. It’s understandable about the siblings not wanting to see her. IT must be a blow to them and their mother’s memory. Adultery is not easy to forgive. Tsai should be commended for embraching his own daughter he never knew. I hope the family forgive and forget eventually.
    By Anonymous, 01-23-08, 10:42 PM
    I like how the father didn’t even call his 6 legitimate children to tell them about the news, and yet everyone seems to have already formed an opinion about them.
    By bea logical, 01-23-08, 11:04 PM

    he cares

    It just goes to show that God cares for the orphan and the widow, and He is no respecter of persons. He puts the solitary together and can restore the years the locust has eaten. It certainly would make a great film.
    By i_munster, 01-23-08, 11:21 PM

    what a reunion!

    This one-night fling does have a happy ending! I’m happy for both to have found each other.
    By Cullen, 01-23-08, 11:43 PM

    Tran Thi Kham wants her share of the Estate

    I’ll be she not only want to care for her long lost sick father, but would love a piece of his estate. No wonder the six step siblings have not spoken up. They’re probably trying to make sure she’s out of their dad’s will. I mean, even if she left her abusive husband, she still has two grown children in Vietnam.
    By Olisa, 01-23-08, 11:46 PM

    What A Wonderful Ending...

    Where is this movie showing? I want to see it.
    By in-awe, 01-24-08, 12:42 AM

    WOW

    I think that is great. Too bad the mother wasn’t around to see this happen. I hope that she enjoys every moment that they have to spend together. At least she’s got to meet her dad and it’s great that he has open arms.
    By A Vietnam Vet, 01-24-08, 12:53 AM

    Judgement in America

    To the “Holy Than Thou American Women” that are looking down on young Vietnamese women that sold their bodies for money fo feed their families in Vietnam. What do you call the behavior of American women in the 1960’s and 1970’s ?? You have no room to judge or cast the first stone. This Vietnamese woman finally has her father, she is fortunate. What about the Americans that left their children in Vietnam ?? The French Government cared about theirs, they built schools in Vietnam for the French Vietnamese children. But as a nation we did nothing, the children lived on the streets in shame. Shame on us...
    By A Vietnam Vet, 01-24-08, 01:15 AM

    Judgement in America

    To the “Holy Than Thou American Women” that are looking down on young Vietnamese women that sold their bodies for money to feed their families in Vietnam. What do you call the behavior of American women in the 1960’s and 1970’s ?? You have no room to judge or cast the first stone. This Vietnamese woman finally has her father, she is fortunate. What about the Americans that left their children in Vietnam ?? The French Government cared about theirs, they built schools in Vietnam for the French Vietnamese children. But as a nation we did nothing, the children lived on the streets in shame. Shame on us...
    By simpleton, 01-24-08, 01:38 AM

    There is a blessing in the cluster

    Most of u are so ignorant and judgemental like you are so perfect and havent make any mistakes in your life. I applaud this man for coming forward even after all this time, as for his children, there is an old saying that the stone that the builder reject will one day become the head corner stone, young lady you did a brave thing even trying to find your father not knowing what to expectas for your half siblings you give them time and space afterall you know about this all your life and you know what it’s like not to have parent they haven’t seen that yet so give time and do what you can for your father with no expectations and may the God that brought you this far continue to keep and protect
    By Bocanot, 01-24-08, 01:42 AM

    There's a movie here

    This story has all the ingredients for a great “Terms of Endearment” type movie. Of course, Hollywood will make it some sort of Cinderella (cruel stepsisters and all!) Maybe Zhang Yimou is paying attention?
    By dixiechick, 01-24-08, 01:46 AM
    By A Vietnam Vet, 01-23-08, 08:15 PM i have so much respect for your honesty ! everyone else ...this woman wasnt a prostitute he didnt pay her......just to remind u....... girls in n.a and everywhere else in the world have one night stands all the time no one is accusing them of being prostitutes, at least this lady didnt chase after him to ruin his marriage or throw her kid away obviously this was not a selfish act
    By Anonymous, 01-24-08, 01:57 AM

    A good story

    This is a story that would make a good movie, but would have too much CLASS for Hollywood standards. And did some of you people not read that she left behind two “grown” children. She didn’t abandon them! Is it so hard to be happy for someone?!!.. You are the same people that wouldn’t go see it as a movie unless it was about a woman with no morals.
    By RARE, 01-24-08, 03:55 AM

    COMMENTS ON STORY

    THIS IS A GOOD STORY. IT IS IMPORTANT TO DO GOOD TO EVERYONE YOU COME IN CONTACT WITH. ALSO DO YOUR JOB WELL LIKE DOING IT ONTO GOD. I HOPE HER HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS ACCEPT HER.
    By beetlejew, 01-24-08, 04:12 AM

    like totally

    they look alike, eyes, nose . . . totally father & daughter.
    By Anonymous, 01-24-08, 04:59 AM
    Don’t bring God-Of-The-Gaps into this. Coincident is coincident and God doesn’t exist.
    By Anonymous, 01-24-08, 05:49 AM

    wonderful story

    He is a lucky man. At least, he has a daughter to look after him in the end. He may not be a rich man, so please don’t give a comment that she wants money (inheritance) from him. Anyway, this is a wonderful story with a nice ending !
    By God-fearing, 01-24-08, 05:54 AM

    God answers prayers

    I read most of the comments here and I feel sorry for those uncaring people. To those who believe everything does not happen by coincidence, I am with you, May God bless you richly. I believe this is answered prayer on the part of the daughter who wanted so much to find her biological father. I believe there is joy in the daughter who found his dad. I praise God for the opportunity of letting the daughter know his father while he’s still alive. To the 6 children, I don’t judge them. All I can say is that if I am in their shoes even how busy I am with work and caring my own family, STILL I would find time to see how my parents are doing.I would provide them with what they need according to my means. Granting that their parents may have been mean to their children, still I would forgive and love them for the glory of God. The bottomline here is LOVE. To the unforgiving and critical people here, may God forgive you. I hope you will experience how God works in your life, how He cares for all mankind. He let His only beloved Son to die on calvary for our sins. Be grateful and repent before it is not too late. May the peace of God dwells in all our hearts, amen.
    By Raquel, 01-24-08, 12:58 PM

    GOD Blessed Tran Thi Kham***

    Now sad.. That Six Kids and they could not take turn to care of their Mother? But a Mad that turned out to be their half Sister did...Welcome her with Open hands..DNA Proved she is Fam***
    By A Vietnam Vet, 01-24-08, 03:16 PM

    Judgement in America

    To dixiechick, thank you for understanding “The Vietnam Vet”. American’s do not understand Vietnamese culture. That when a young Vietnamese women (Tran’s mother) away from home, comes back pregnant with a foreign child that her family would have disrespect for her. Tran’s mother died when Tran was only two months old. I would not be surprised if Tran’s mother committed suicide. Even Vietnamese womem working as a prostitute (not the case here) was disrespected by their parents. That is why their children were left on the streets to survive after the war. The thankful thing is that Tran had a aunt to raise her. Taking care of their family is part of the Vietnamese culture, so it comes as no surprise that Tran wants to take care of her father. Can American’s say that about their children??.. There is more to this story. Don’t be judgmental when you don’t know the culture.
    By krantz, 01-24-08, 04:54 PM

    a blessing for them!

    I’m adopted and with my adopted parents' blessings, searched years ago. Birthdad accepted me into his life, birthmom never met me nor heard my voice but cannot re-open that chapter in her life. I have known both the heartbreak of rejection, and the joy of reunion. I am very happy for Tran. Her mother is dead, she never knew her, and she thought she would never know her father, either, but now she can! She never had any siblings, but now perhaps she can! Her husband is abusive...What a sad, sad life story for her, UNTIL NOW. I pray her all the blessings in the world, and that her half-siblings can reach out to her with open hearts, forgive their dad, and offer her the love of family that she so craved all her life.
    By Tracy Kimble, 01-24-08, 04:57 PM

    I think it is great.

    I was in the same shoes. I found my dad when I was 35. He was looking for me all these years and then I found him. I have six other brothers and sisters and six uncles and one aunt. They all welcomed me with open arms. (Amazing) They know about me because Jerry talked so much about finding me. He has now passed 5 years later. I could of been the one who did not forgive but what a blessing I would of missed. I hope they all get together and be adults about it.
    By The British Dentist, 01-24-08, 08:40 PM

    I wouldn't pay tree fiddy to see it

    Would make a good Springer episode, not a good movie. “Ohhh nooo heee di’int!" *ding* *ding* *ding*
    By Anonymous, 01-25-08, 07:03 AM

    more stories

    By taking care for Mrs. Tsai, she (Tran Thi Kham) earned only 200 dollars a month (Mr. Tsai paid about 650 dollars a month, but the employment agency got about 450 dollars). Mrs. Tsai had already fired other maids before hiring her (Tran Thi Kham). Both Mr. Tsai and Mrs. Tsai liked Tran Thi Kham very much and satisfied with her job performance. They kept her till Mrs. Tsai died 7 months later.
    By Pilgrim, 01-25-08, 05:19 PM

    Who Knows?

    Those who jump so quickly to condemn Those who condemn the sin of the man who discovered that he had an existing,illegitimate, daughter should all go have DNA tests done to see if they, themselves, are their own “father’s children” before pointing the fingers of judgment at this one man. I know a man who didn’t know a brief affair in his young years had produced a child until he returned to the US to vist, after living abroad with his Samoan wife and children. At the airport, his visa was confiscated and he was informed that he was named as the father of a -now teen aged-welfare child, whom the feds were after to pay the price they had set for her upbringing. DNA tests proved he was the Father and he is stuck in the US with no way to provide a good living for his legitimate children and legal wife, and he not allowed to return home until the tremendous amount of money the Feds say he owes, is paid. He’s never met the girl he fathered, who is now an adult.
    By Pilgrim, 01-25-08, 05:22 PM
    Those who condemn the sin of the man who discovered that he had an existing,illegitimate, daughter, should all go have DNA tests done to see if they, themselves, are their own “father’s children” before pointing the fingers of judgment at this one man. I know a man who didn’t know that a brief affair -or maybe even it was a one night stand?- in his young years had produced a child, until he returned to the US to vist, after living abroad with his Samoan wife and children. At the airport, his visa was confiscated and he was informed that he was named as the father of a -at the time teen aged- welfare child, whom the feds were after to pay the price they had set for her upbringing. DNA tests proved he was the Father, and he is stuck in the US with no way to provide a good living for his legitimate children and legal wife, and he is not allowed to return home until the tremendous amount of money the Feds say he owes, is paid. He’s never met the girl he fathered, who is now an adult. This is a edited, easier to read version of the above post by me. -Sorry about the first.
    By Pilgrim, 01-25-08, 05:25 PM
    I posted a legitimate edited version of my post the second time, and yet it is impossible to read well. What I wrote is scrambled by the computers receiving it and it reads like a garbled mess. I can’t fix it. Hope all can get tme message I sent, anyway.
    By An honest man, 01-25-08, 06:58 PM

    Love and Romance

    Awww - ain’t adulterous affairs and anonymous children sweet! I haven’t been so touched by a story since the adulterous buggery in Brokeback Mountain!
    By skeleton, 01-25-08, 07:12 PM

    What a contrast

    Maybe our son who has let his wife cut off all contact will read this and realize what he has done already that cannot be undone. As for the siblings, they need to get over it and lovingly accept. I’m 100% sure they are not all perfect either. If they won’t have Tran, we’ll happily make her part of US.
    By skyscout, 01-25-08, 07:22 PM

    love is all there is

    There are no accidents in the universe. This story can only get mote interesting and I look forward to the book. There are lessons here about love that can heal broken hearts and confirm that the way to heal the earth is with love. John was and still is right. Love is all there is.48A40
    By REED, 01-25-08, 08:25 PM

    Not in America!!

    If this story took place in America, their would be nothing to talk about.The love child would have been aborted. Thank GOD for her Mother who cared enough about life to give birth to this wonderful human being. Great story which will be become a great movie some day.
    By Anonymous, 01-25-08, 09:18 PM

    updated stories

    Mr. & Mrs. Tsai have 6 children (3 sons and 3 daughters). Three sons are working in the mainland China. Three daughters all are married and living far away. Some children did ask their parents to move in and live with them, but the couple did not want to. They hired foreign maids because of cheap labor. Updated to the story, Tran Thi Kham 's abusive and unemployed husband already had a new wife. Tran and 2 children had moved back to her Aunt’s house. She is waiting for paper so that she can emigrate to Taiwan.

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